Four homecomings and one prom celebration make up the entirety of school dances that South seniors will experience, as they get ready to close the chapter of their high school experience.
To resolve the widening lack of school tradition, South should adapt the tradition of a Sadie Hawkins dance available for all grades. Reversing traditional roles, ladies ask the gentlemen to be their date, which would incline school involvement and spirit.
Some athletic students sacrifice their once-in-a-lifetime prom day to show up for their sports practice, which creates a penalty that is completely out of their control. When students cannot entirely participate in each school-funded event provided, it sends an unethical message when they are forced to pick and choose, while their decision ultimately lies in the hands of coaches. Bringing in a Sadie Hawkins would allow students not to have to let go of years of work dedicated to their sport, and allow them to create a balance between sports and fun. I believe adding this dance would honor those students who have had to sacrifice their prom experience, and allow for more participation and opportunity overall.
Parents are constantly reminding kids that high school years are the best years of life, when in reality the school calendar falls short of special events like dances. I have observed after school dances, the halls are full of positive conversation and laughter reflecting the memorable night and I strongly believe a Sadie Hawkins would bring students together in the same way. As some may argue that Sadie Hawkins’ attendance would be scarce, I disagree due to the outcome of other school dances that suggest otherwise. When considering the large student body that attends homecoming and prom, I believe that this dance would ensure attendance from all grade levels.
The importance of teenage girls building confidence during their high school years cannot be stressed enough. Breaking standard stereotypes, a Sadie Hawkins dance would help young ladies overcome the fear of rejection and break the concept that girls are the ones waiting to be chosen. I believe that high school is the perfect time to develop strong communication skills and leadership qualities, which can then translate into success in future career pathways. Stepping up and taking the initiative will ultimately create a more progressive school culture.
